Moments, Week 1
A life is lived moment by moment.
This week I’m introducing a new weekly series called Moments. It’s a place for me to capture all the little moments that make up a week – quirky, joyful, heart-rending, funny, enlightening, frustrating, touching… You have a lot of those when you’re raising children, and but they don’t necessarily make their way into a blog post. Welcome to my first Moments post, an opportunity for weekly reflection when life spins fast.
Elan fell down the stairs and sported a Harry-Pottery-style mark on his forehead for a few days.
In the car: “Next year I’m going to be four. And I’m going to turn into a girl. Next year, I won’t be a boy.” (We are guessing this is because most of the four-year-olds at his nursery school happen to be girls.)
We got him to try corn, which probably wouldn’t feel like a victory in the vegetable department to some parents, but did for us.
On finding his wallet, a coin purse: “Okay, we’ve got money. That means we can borrow something from a store.”
Have you ever tried to sing a bedtime song over a different song playing on the CD player? I did, and the comment I got, with an affectionate hand in my hair was: “Mama, you’re funny.”
An afternoon that felt like summer: I took Elan to Lake Anza, up in the hills outside Berkeley, where we met up with friends. My friend and I sat with the sun on our backs and our pregnant bellies (we are due the same week, as is another good friend!), while Elan and his buddy played for two hours in the shallow sloping water. They were ecstatic. We got soft-serve ice cream cones and the boys would take a few licks, then run back into the water, then run out again for another few licks… Elan slept well that night.
My husband bought me flowers to mark the one-year anniversary of my miscarriage.
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If you’d like to join me in this blog challenge by starting your own weekly Moments series, please do! It’s not just for parents. (If you do take this blog challenge, please link back here.) Thanks for reading & may your weekend be filled with memorable moments.