After Mikhail lost his job over a year ago and started working from home, he took over our home office and a corner of our bedroom became my office. It was a plain little space, my beautiful vintage table that I used as a desk perpetually piled with projects in progress.Truthfully it was not a very inspiring place to work, but I don't usually do my creative writing at a desk anyway. I use a desk for paying bills and doing household and organization work. The work that needs more intense focus I usually do at cafes, away from the chatter of little voices. Or when the house is quiet, I often migrate onto the couch, laptop on - well - lap.When I was pregnant and couldn't sleep, I often found myself rearranging furniture in my head. I think it was part of my obsessive need to make the baby a real entity, a tiny person who would need a changing table, storage for diapers and ridiculously small clothes. It was like if I could just figure out how to arrange the furniture to make it all work in our ... more
All the leaves fell off the trees, and then they started budding again. A few days later. That's how we do early spring winter in this part of the world.We had a string of 70+ degree days. I don't remember how many. Enough to lose count.Enough to coax the daffodils out of the ground.And the cherry trees to bloom.This is as close as we get to snow around here.I walked the streets of my neighborhood one late afternoon with my camera.My new camera, which I love so very ... more
Baby's first fever collides with massive work project.After many hours of holding and soothing, and many more hours of typing and staring at my computer screen, I simply must show you a few little things. If money grew on trees, I'd get these for my poor feverish baby. They wouldn't make him feel better (only infant tylenol does that), but they sure would look cute.Organic owls by Dwell. I'm such a fan of the one-piece playsuit.New Zealand lambswool booties by KINA, in Spice - I ... more
Because I get hooked, lose all self-control, and - boom! - just like that! - the precious morning Elan-in-preschool hours are gone, and I've got nothing done.Nothing except lose myself completely in a love story. It's nice to see a woman who, after 4 children, still has the hots for her husband so much that she posts a picture of his Wrangler-clad assets in the sidebar of her website.I have the hots for my husband, too. But I'll hold off on the picture, at least for now.In the middle ... more
It's raining in San Diego, but it's still the beach, and it's beautiful. Tonight Elan & I had a little steam in the jacuzzi at 5:30 p.m. which he thought was quite novel because it was dark. The pool and jacuzzi were lit up and it was so remarkably civilized to sit in the hot water and talk with my son about his day. He went to the science center with my parents and sister and nephew while Mikhail and I took Emry around on errands and *talked.* We've got ... more
There's a fun new game round these parts. It's called torture the baby for our own amusement. Emry doesn't particularly like hats, but he'll tolerate them so long as they don't fall down over his eyes. Which this Peruvian one does, but it's so gorgeous we put it on him anyway.Sometimes he doesn't notice the indignity.Then there's his bear suit, which is skin-tight because it's a newborn size that fits "up to 7 pounds" and he weighs oh - about 12. But we stuffed him in there anyway, ... more
I officially adore this outfit, which Emry wore to his first big public outing, a wedding reception in Petaluma.Onesie is Five Little Monkeys bought used, pants are speeses, and booties are handmade from Bolivia.Real men wear dragons.
Spend the afternoon. You can't take it with you.-Annie DillardLake Tahoe, 23 weeksWe spent a few days at Lake Tahoe with my parents, aka Nana & Babu, my sister Laura, brother-in-law Jason and their 9-month-old son Judah.Laura, Jason & JudahJudah and Elan are a study in contrasts. Judah is a great sleeper and loves to eat. Need I say more?"Dude, can I have some of those?"Judah covets Elan's crackers.The boys are wearing my favorite kiddo hooded towels. They're super-soft, warm enough to take away a post-swim chill, ... more
My favorite baby/toddler shoe company, See Kai Run, is having their big annual sale now. 50% off, plus reasonable shipping. The best sizes are moving fast, so hop over there and gobble yourself up some cuteness. I always buy one size ahead for Elan (at one point 2 sizes ahead cause his feet were growing so fast), but unfortunately he's up to their next line, for older kids, and they didn't have any cute boy styles on sale in that line. Now what will I do when he outgrows ... more
I don't usually post about baby-in-the-news stuff, but I thought this was too important not to mention. I am a big advocate of babywearing; wearing Elan in a Zolowear sling and Ergo carrier worked well for both of us throughout his first year and beyond (as recently as last November I was carting my gigantic 37-pound 3-year-old around New York City on my back in the Ergo).I have often helped friends get their babies into carriers, which can be intimidating the first few times. When Elan was a baby, I ... more