A cloudy day at the beach is still a day at the beachElan named the baby. Thank goodness, because Mikhail and I have been having some trouble with this task. One morning, playing a game involving magnetic tow truck and wrecked cars with numbers on them, Elan said "Baby Tie-lie is 1 years old." Only a blip of hesitation before he busted out with "Tie-lie." Then he towed the "1" over to my belly and plopped it on top. Also, according to him, it's a girl. He's thought that since the start, using the pronoun "she" and talking about his "sister." Won't he be surprised if it's a boy. Of course, I think he'll just be surprised that it's an actual baby, come to live with us, and by the way, when will she/he be going home?Judah is safely on his way back to Georgia with no injuries caused by Elan. Not that he didn't occasionally try. One morning, while I slept in, Elan overturned an ottoman on top of Judah. He did it right in front of my sister. She put him in a time-out. Later in the ... more
Spend the afternoon. You can't take it with you.-Annie DillardLake Tahoe, 23 weeksWe spent a few days at Lake Tahoe with my parents, aka Nana & Babu, my sister Laura, brother-in-law Jason and their 9-month-old son Judah.Laura, Jason & JudahJudah and Elan are a study in contrasts. Judah is a great sleeper and loves to eat. Need I say more?"Dude, can I have some of those?"Judah covets Elan's crackers.The boys are wearing my favorite kiddo hooded towels. They're super-soft, warm enough to take away a post-swim chill, ... more
Today my parents celebrate 40 years of marriage. As I said to my dad, that's a long time. Nice work, you two!And today is my mom's last day of work as a teacher; tomorrow marks the official beginning of her long-awaited retirement.Double happiness.
My nephew Judah, exploring various emotional states.
Happy, sad, and asleep. That pretty much sums it up, doesn't it?
Little J survived his first encounter with his big cousin Elan.
Though he wasn't sure about posing for pictures.
Of course, these pictures were taken two months ago, so he's already much more mature.
My birthday was last month. It appears that Elan takes after me: love of chocolate has officially been selected from the gene pool. Except I am neater about how much ends up on my face. Though if you were at our wedding, which featured chocolate cake, you might disagree.
An excerpt from a San Francisco Chronicle article pretty much sums it up for us over here. The article is headlined A look back at one of the worst years ever and starts like this:"If there is good news for East Bay residents in 2009, it's that the year is almost over. And if you are one of those poor souls who lost a home, a job - or both and then some - take comfort, friend, for you are a survivor of one of the worst years on record."Full ... more
I swear that this blog is not becoming all-miscarriage-all-the-time. That would be way too depressing for me and for you. But I really wanted to share a post I found on one of the blogs I read regularly. She has an essay out in The Sun about her experience. I've only read the teaser they give you on The Sun's website, but I will be buying the magazine to read the rest.And no, referencing this blog post doesn't mean that Mikhail and I are deciding that Elan is our one ... more
My new nephew's name is technically Judah, but after spending four days snuggling him, I get to call him Jude. Cause it rhymes with Dude. And you know how fun it is to do the whole baby-talk thing while rhyming. Even though I am actually terrible at rhyming. Just ask my husband. Or Elan, who just discovered the concept of rhyming a week ago and is already better at it than his mama.Anyway, I got to steep myself in newborn-land at my sister & Jason's house outside Athens, Georgia, courtesy ... more
Judah Alexander Mann, born September 18. Isn't he adorable?I get to meet him later this month, when I go to Georgia to see my sister, my brother-in-law, the three dogs, and him!
Oh, here, there, and everywhere. (Yes, we do travel a lot. And yes, I always pack too much.)Our latest voyage was closer to home.On a wildlife-filled ranch in west Marin county this past weekend, Mikhail's sister Sara tied the knot with Renee..Well technically, they got married a year ago, back when same-sex marriage was (briefly) legal in California. This past weekend was their community wedding, and it was a gorgeous location, heart-tugging ceremony, and rockin' party.Rock climbing after the ceremonyElan was as crazily energetic as I've ever seen him ... more
I'm going to take a break from sorting through my stack of medical bills to tell you I really loved Steamboat Springs, Colorado. So much so that, when we were there, I found myself perusing real estate listings, a habit of mine when I find a place where I *could* imagine myself living. I have no plans to move anywhere anytime soon, but this is a sweet place to visit.Reasons to go (summer version):#1: They have aspen trees. My favorite.#2: Hot air balloon rodeo. I believe that's actually two ... more